![]() ![]() I’ve already dusted off my résumé, but changing jobs won’t be easy thanks to the economy, and I’m not the kind of guy who just runs away when it’s time to take a stand. I don’t understand why he would feel any better looking at a dozen bald guys. I have absolutely no desire to do so, and while several others on staff say they don’t want to, the guilt trip is working, and none of them wants to risk offending the co-worker when he returns. A few guys have already shaved their heads, and they, along with several others who plan to follow suit, are laying one hell of a guilt trip on the rest of us to shave our heads, too. But at least now it won’t be based on deception.ĭear Prudie, One of my co-workers has lost all of his hair due to cancer treatments, and someone came up with the idea that we should all shave our heads in solidarity when he returns to work in a few weeks. As for your relationship with your father, you’re right, it will never be the same. (It would help if you were also a virgin.) As horrifying as this revelation will be for your father, surely his lawyer will do a little happy dance when he or she hears not only this news, but that stepmom has been offering to exchange her silence for money. Give as brief an account as possible and emphasize that you were a minor when she seduced you. Tell your father you have been living with a sickening, shameful secret that has been a blot on your life. That way, he’s sitting down and you’ll have some privacy, but if he snaps and starts strangling you, maybe the busboy can intervene. I don’t know what your father’s mental state or temperament is, so it might be best to deliver this news in a corner booth in a restaurant. None of your choices is good, but surely you want to be the first to let your father know you weren’t spending all your free time your senior year of high school in woodworking class. Now that she’s threatened you, it will be hard to ever feel comfortable with your father knowing she’s always fingering the pin on this grenade. The pain of extracting her from his life will be well worth it to your father. ![]() Robinson.” Not only has this woman had an affair with her stepson and been multiply unfaithful to her husband, she is also an extortionist. What is better: try to reason with this woman, even though she is irrational? Do her bidding in order to save Dad greater pain? Tell Dad everything myself, knowing that things will never be the same between him, me, and the rest of my family? I just want to do the best thing for him at this point, and I feel powerless.ĭear Karma, As Simon and Garfunkel said so eloquently about a similar situation: “ Koo koo kachoo, Mrs. I feel like karma is giving me what I deserve, but I am scared. She told me that if I don’t convince Dad to concede on a financial matter, she will spill the beans about our affair. Last week, she called me and asked why I am so aloof. They are in the middle of a vicious divorce. I broke it off two years ago. Last month, Dad found out that she had cheated with another man (not me). My attraction waned because of distance, guilt, and because I started to see that she was a horrible person who was terrible to my father. I continued to see her during college and even after, when I came home for visits. From Day One, we agreed that we would never tell my dad. We were intimate about twice a month when my father was traveling for work. So much so that my stepmom (she’s about 15 years older) and I developed an attraction and started an affair. The atmosphere was more relaxed than in my previous home. My father’s new wife was a much younger and very attractive woman. When I was 17, Mom and Stepdad had to move to another city, so I moved in with Dad and Stepmom. Please send your questions for publication to (Questions may be edited.)ĭear Prudie, When I was 9 years old, my parents divorced and both remarried. U.S.Get “Dear Prudence” delivered to your inbox each week click here to sign up. Standard: Premium Plus + Ultimate Fan Account We are offering discounted shipping rates for a limited time! Shipping Method ![]() For more details on our Shipping and Return policy check our FAQ.Digital goods, open DVDs and Blu-rays, smart art prints, mystery bundles, and final sale items are excluded from the return policy.Returns are accepted for most items within 45 days from the delivery date.The customer is responsible for any import / customs fees incurred. These fees are applied per package, and are not included in the cost of the order. may be subject to additional fees such as import / customs fees. Orders containing multiple products may be shipped out in separate packages.If your pre-order is delayed, you will be notified via email by the end of the month. ![]() Most Pre-Orders will be delayed by 1-2 months. ![]()
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